Before Collin was born, I didn't care what the gender of our child was. I thought having a boy first would be great because everyone should have a big brother. I love mine, he's always done a good job taking care of me and helping me when I needed him. Trevor is a great big brother, I'm sure his younger siblings will testify to his enthusiastic involvement. :) Every girl needs a big brother.
I really enjoy Collin. I love his snuggles and slobbery kisses and his little arms that give big hugs. I love that he is mine, and I'm his mom. I love that every inch of him is boy and I just want a million more. I also love the relationship Collin and Trevor have developed. Trevor tosses him around and wrestles with him and Collin loves it. Trevor teaches him to be strong and kind and respectful in a way I'm sure only a dad can. While I'm sad everyday about how quickly he's growing, and that these moments are soon to be gone forever, I'm so excited to see him grow up. I know he's going to be a great man and I'm excited to help him get there. As we've started to think of adding to our family I found myself terrified of having a girl. I know boys, I love boys and I want more! (I'm laughing at myself writing this because my friend expressed similar feelings before the birth of her daughter and I remember thinking that was a silly thing to think. Anna, I totally get it now.)
Baby #2 is on the way. She'll be here in August. I say she with 95% certainty. We've done 3 ultra sounds and each time the answer is the same "I think its a girl, but I can't get a very good look" When we first started talking with Collin about a baby we asked Collin if he wants a baby boy or baby girl he said baby girl. When I asked him, don't you want a baby boy, he adamantly refused. No matter how we ask, he says girl every time. So we're assuming its a girl and we're proud that she is fighting to keep her mystery at such a young age. Hopefully its a sign of her future lady-like behavior. Trevor is already telling Collin how he's going to have to look out for his sister and make sure ALL the guys know to stay away. Collin listens intently and I'm sure he'll be ready to spring into action as soon as needed.
Despite my hesitations of having a girl, I find myself excited and really anxious for her to get here. I can feel her sweet spirit even now and can't wait for her to join our family and make it that much more complete.
FYI My sister and her husband are expecting their first daughter the same day we are, and Trevor's sister and her husband are expecting their second daughter just two months prior to us. We are so excited for them as well.
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I already told you this...but yay!!! SO excited for you and I can't wait to see she has arrived and to see pics of her. So exciting!!
YAY!!!!! CONGRATS!! Girls are FUN! :)
This is GREAT news!!! Congratulations!
Yay! You finally posted about her. :) And HAAAAA! I told you so! Girls ARE SCARY!!!!!! But I love mine, and you will love yours, and I will love yours. :)
Also, it's kinda interesting to look back at all the fears I had and a year later re-evaluate my thoughts on it. I think in fact I may have to write another blog post about it. Thanks for the idea. :)
Oh, and August feels soon to me. Does it feel soon to you?
And,(I think this is the last thing) Colin is going to be an EXCELLENT big brother!
Yay for one of each. If Trevor is anything like John he is satisfied and happy to be done having children. Ba ha ha! :)
That is so exciting! Congratulations. I love having a boy first. Girl's definitely feel different after mothering a son. Not better or worse...just different. I feel like there is a different type of bond. My sons seem to need me more and attach themselves more desperately or something. I'm really happy for you. Girls are wonderful!
oh congrats guys!! Little girls are so much fun! I was terrified of having a boy after 3 girls, lol.
Ashlee--it's strange to hear anyone in your family claiming to not know a lot about girls! I just realized you are the only girl in your family that can say they have an older brother:)Take it from me, and my four daughters, girls ROCK! Congratulations!!! You'll be so happy to have one of each and I'm sure soon, you'll have a house full of both!
That is so exciting! Congrats! I have 2 girls at home and I think it's so fun to dress them all cute with hair bows. I am excited to have boys someday...my husband especially can't wait.
Congratulations! I know exactly how you feel because if I ever had a boy, I would be NERVOUS...because I know how to have little girls :) AND little boy parts scare me. Ha. But girl stuff is SO much for fun to buy!! Everytime I have to buy boy things for friends, it's the hardest thing ever!! So, don't go too crazy at Stewerts ;)
Congrats! So exciting for your family, and your siblings also.
You make cute babies either way!
Oh man! I really wish you guys still lived close :) Hope you're feeling alright
Congrats! That's EXACTLY how I felt about having a girl but it all fell into place.
Congrats Ash! You will like a girls too, they are fun. Drama drama sometimes but fun. I am scared for the teens tho...ooooh. I can't think about that, too scary.
I totally read this the day you posted, but I failed 100% to comment or call you. Boo, me.
Hurray you! Your little girl is so lucky! And is so not going to date thanks to her awesome dad and big brother.
We get to throw a shower, right? :D
I'm late... I didn't even know you were expecting! I am so excited for you. You'll love having a girl and you'll do great :) Miss you!
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